The “I’m never enough” feeling explained. Underneath this argument are two people who desperately want to be seen, loved, and understood. When you don’t feel you can successfully make your partner happy, it’s easy to shut down your relationship, which only creates more of the same discontent. On the other hand, when your partner is withdrawn or defensive anytime a hard topic comes up, it’s easy to feel like your relationship is doomed and you’ll never be connected. So many couples could break ou