Imagine you’re on your fourth date with this guy you met on a dating app. You know most superficial things about each other by now, have exhausted your inventories of pick-up lines, and can see right ...

Scroll down for a transcription of this episode. Can a simple set of 36 questions build love and intimacy? We explore the science behind how the questions we ask and the way we listen shape our ...

There is a well-known set of 36 questions that helps two strangers get to know each other, and potentially fall in love. These questions, popularized in the NY Times article “The 36 Questions That ...

Formulated in 1997, they’re designed to speed up the creation of intimacy between two strangers ...

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The book and this blog on The Undervalued Self, which is all about ranking and linking, came out of my long time interest in understanding love. This post is the real story behind research I was ...